You are On Your Own
Now that you’ve pushed him away, why are you complaining? When you finally get what you want, there’s a whole new fight about what he’s NOT doing for the kids. That makes no sense; you bitched and complained….he wasn’t shit when he was getting the kids when he was supposed to and buying them what they needed.
Before if got this far, he tried in every way to be there and help you PARENT the children you created together….but you just couldn’t let that happen peacefully. When the kids don’t listen, when you need to work late and don’t have a sitter…whatever the issue…it’s just that…YOUR ISSUE…because now…you’re on your own.